Best movie about talent, passion, perfection and drive

Yesterday I watched "Jiro dreams of sushi", a documentary by David Gelb about the life of Jiro, the best sushi maker in the world. (available on internet for free : http://viooz.eu/movies/10806-jiro-dreams-of-sushi-2011.html)

The movie is about passion for you work, it is about leaving a legacy, about drive for perfection, about talent development. It is also a movie about customer relationships ... it is a great movie with a huge message behind it. A must see for everybody who is working on these topics.

Jiro is 85 years old, he owns a restaurant in Tokyo with 3 michelin stars and only 10 seats. At the age of 7 he had to leave home and he struggled his way to the top. His drive for perfection is gigantic and he demands this same attitude from everybody he is working with; the tuna dealer, the rice vendor, the people in his kitchen and most of all his sons.

Jiro has 2 sons. The oldest son (Yoshikazu) is working in the same restaurant as the wing man of his father. The youngest son (Takashi) is running his own restaurant and tries to equal his father's restaurant. The movie is about how Jiro tried to bring over his passion for food to his sons and how they coped with it.

This master made a lot sacrifices (like he seldom saw his kids when they were young), but today he sees that it was worth every penny. He is closely collaborating with his sons, who are equally passionated about sushi as their father.

I could continue about this movie for hours, but suggest, you just watch it yourself.

To end up this blogpost, I give one quote of the master himself :

Once you decide on your occupation

You must immerse yourself in your work

You must fall in love with your work

Never complain about your job

You must dedicate your life to mastering your skill

That's the secret of success

and is the key to being regarded honorably

Jiro

Book review : Tribes by Seth Godin

I have always been a big fan of Seth Godin. He is a master in using the right words to get a message across. Never too many words, just the right words and straight to the heart and the mind.
Tribes is about how we connect with other people and how groups are formed. To create a group we need leaders. These leaders are not necessarily hierarchical leaders, but they need to be inspirational leaders. People we believe in. People with a message that goes straight to the heart.

What are tribes ? 

• tribes are something to believe in. Do you believe in the organization you are working for ? 
• tribes are groups of partisans (small or big) gathered around a leader. Without a leader, tribes become a bunch of people
• tribes have a mutual destiny, believe, purpose, ...
• Tribes often arise to make a difference. To fill in a gap or need. 

Tribes need leaders, not managers !

Godin makes a clear difference between managers and leaders. 

• Leaders have followers. Managers have employees.
• Leaders make a change, they make the difference between status quo and moving forward. Managers make 'things' (products, services, ...)
• Leaders kick ass. Managers try to control things and remain stability. 
• Leadership is a natural thing. Management is a job role in which you are appointed.
• Leaders dare to decide. (see also my previous blogpost on 'no guts no glory - take decisions now)

React - Reply - Initiate

Reacting is a what many politicians do. They say things based on their intuition. Reacting is communication without being constructive.

Replying is getting into dialogue. Based on what has been said, you reply, give your opinion. This is already a level higher than reacting. 

Initiating is the highest level. True leaders initiate. They don't wait until things happen. They take the initiative and bring ideas to the world.  

Sheepwalking

I love the word sheepwalking. Organizations often hire people who draw between the lines. Nice people who don't get you any problems. People who obey and follow the rules. 

Fine ! BUT DON'T EXPECT THESE PEOPLE TO BE THE INNOVATORS WHO BUILD YOUR FUTURE !!!!

If you want true innovators, don't hire sheepwalkers. Hire people who dare to turn things upside down. People who look at things from a different angle and who dare to speak up about their ideas. 

To conclude 

It is a great book. It took me less than a day to read it and it dazzled my mind. Love it. My advise : Go to the (online) bookstore now and buy it. 

Your personal learning map

Yesterday I attended an interesting seminar about drawing your personal learning map by Jan Weverberg (@janweverbergh) at VOV (www.vov.be). I would like to share some of the ideas, mixed with my own insights.

We learn all the time. We observe, we gather information, we discover, we talk & listen and we learn. I agree, we are not always aware of the fact we are learning, but I believe we always learn from our experiences.



I distinguish 5 groups of learning sources :

1. Me & the world : we learn by observing what is going on around us. As a toddler this was the most important source of learning. We look at mum & dad, big brother or sister and we try to copy them. As we grow older, we also interact with other people in the world. We contact certain people more easily if we want to know something about a certain topic. 
2. Seminars : at the age of 5 we go to school and learn what teachers tell us (and try to repeat it, to get good grades). Later on in life we keep on doing this, although we don't need the grades anymore. 
3. Books and magazines : not everybody, but many people read books and magazines. Depending on the source the quality of the book or magazine might vary. Reading is definitely a good way to learn. I can only recommend it.
4. e-World : ever since the invention of the internet, a load of information is coming at us. This gigantic maze of information can serve as a good source, but it is a maze. You have to find your way through it. 
5. Social media : I draw a line between e-world and social media. To me e-Worlds are more static sources like Wikipedia, websites, ... Social media are dynamic sources like blogs, twitter, linked in, ... 

My advise to you :

To be more aware of your learning sources, you can draw your personal learning map. Discover who you contact when you need information on a certain topic, what are the sources you'll search through, who are the twitter-guru's you follow, ... ? Doing this exercise, will help you become more aware of how you learn, which creates more focus and better results. 

Take a piece of paper and write down :

Who you gonna call ? to get information ? 

What were the best seminars ever ? 

Who are the authors / magazines I learn from ?

What are my e-sources ? (websites, ...)

What social media sources do I use (twitter sources, people on linked in, ...)

Have fun !

Quote of the day

You can't milk a cow with your hands in your pants.

Admiral Freebee

Stop killing these great ideas, they are your future !

A true story

One day, Peter was attending a meeting in his company. His boss was giving a speech about the need for change to turn around the negative financial situation of the company. As a "good" manager he asked the audience to bring in great ideas that could help. 

Peter came up with an idea that didn't need big investments, but ... even before he finished his ideas, the idea was killed by his boss as being 'not realistic'.

Does this sound familiar to you ? 

Greatest ideas often start with a strange twist in our mind. And when we persist, the idea can grow and become a success. We need people to give it a chance. 

Creativity killer bingo

If you recognize this situation, you can introduce the creativity killer bingo in your organization. Every time you have a meeting / discussion / brainstorming, give everybody a creativity killer bingo form. If anybody uses one of the phrases mentioned on the bingo form, other participants can mark it on his form. When you have a full row, it is BINGO time. (perhaps you'll have to pay a round after hours, or you'll have to pay for the pizza's, ...)

Don't kill creativity and ideas before they are born. Listen to your colleagues and give it a chance. 

Improve learning through Fun

Learning has always been a stressful activity. We had to have high grades. We had to struggle ourselves through piles of books and information. If we didn't do it right, we FAILED. Our parents were upset, later on, our bosses didn't give us challenging projects or promotions, because we FAILED.
I've never been the best student and suffered a lot because of stress for my exams. Despite all the difficulties with the stuff I had to learn for school and university, I had no problem at all to learn a recording of my favorite comedians by heart. I had to listen to it once or twice and - even until today - I can repeat a lot of these recording.
How comes I had difficulties to learn one thing, and had no difficulty to learn the other ?
The reason lies within our brain.
Frazzle is neural condition during which the prefrontal cortex (the executive center of our brain) is blocked by emotional influences like fear and anger. In this condition we have difficulties to concentrate or even think clear. Remember the famous "black out" during an exam. The executive center of our brain is hijacked by the amygdala.
Opposite to this rather negative situation, the prefrontal cortex can also be stimulated by emotions of happiness, fun, joy. When we feel ourselves in such a condition, we learn faster, we are more creative...

What can we learn from this ? 
When we want people to learn in organizations and create learning results, we should create a positive learning climate. The more they fear to apply the things they learned, the smaller the result will be. When an organization supports its staff to apply the things they learned and makes people want to learn, the more likely people will percieve positive emotions and the more likely they will remember things they learned.

From theory to real life

• Make people want to learn
• Make people smile while they are learning
• Give people faith to apply what they learned.
• Don't punish people when they don't understand things the first time. Explain again.
• If you are a trainer - be enthousiastic
• Make learning fun 

Living life at the speed of light

Life can be a rat race. We live at the speed of light. Our kids have to get up early in the morning, so we can have breakfast together and we can be at work on time. We have to drive fast, to be at work on time. We have to take new challenges all the time to make more money or make our boss believe we push ourselves to the limit. 

The result : stress, burn-out, weaker social relations, divorces, conflicts, ... We don't have time to talk anymore. We don't have time to get to know each other. 

Let me straighten this out. YOU HAVE TIME !

We can make choices. What will we do with our lives ? Do you want to invest time in being bussy at work ? Do you want to invest time with your kids ? Do you want to go camping with friends ? Do you simply want to go to the movies ? All choices are right, there are no "wrong" choices. But don't complain about all the things your neighbor achieved. Perhaps he made a choice to work hard, start his own company. Perhaps he has the best relationship with his family and kids, while you are talking with a lawyer to get your third divorce arranged because you were too much focused on you work and not your family. 

Look at this great movie and think about it. 

My story

Two years ago I gave up a well paid job with plenty of security and the complete salary package. I decided to chase my dream and start my own company. Ever since I had great moments, I've met very interesting people and smiled a lot. I had the opportunity to work on projects I really believed in. It was not a pic-nic in the park. It was difficult to start up a training company in a competitive market in times of crisis but I believed in it and did it. My bank account looked like a rollercoaster (up and down :-) )

I had time to start a blog about cooking with my kids (http://kokenmetkinderen.blogspot.com) (only in Dutch - sorry folks). I travelled the world. 

I made a choice and jumped. You can do it as well. I don't say you have to take the same decision as I did. I say you have to dream and live up to it. This my friends, is the key to success and happiness.

My advise 

Make choices. Follow your heart. Don't look back too often to complain about the bad decisions you made. Remember the great moments in your life. Believe in what you do. Build your life - every day. Or with the words of late Stephen Covey : Live a life and leave a legacy.